This isn’t the post you’re expecting. You’re expecting something sweet and Norman Rockwell-ish, about a mom making a cake or cookies or something, and then letting her children lick the bowl and the spoon and the beaters. With a few pictures of the darlings enjoying the treat, even. And Mom, in her apron, smiling in the background.
Nope, this isn’t that post.
This is the post about the tired momma who sometimes feels a tiny bit under-appreciated and overwhelmed. The weary wife who took to heart an off-the-cuff comment made by her husband. The woman who can let herself feel a tad lonely at times in a house full of men. This is the post about having a long day, of focusing on the negative, of staring at the half-empty glass, of being moody and knowing it and still being it.
This is the post about the mom who made her kids’ favourite Flossie’s Chocolate Sheet Cake … and then licked out the bowl – all by herself.

January 21, 2012 at 9:23 am
Hugs to you J and yeah for being real. Love you hope today is a brighter day,
January 21, 2012 at 9:40 am
Haha. Good one. My understanding of life becomes so much better when put on paper. Hard times can become poetic.
January 21, 2012 at 11:01 am
Wonderful post! So real! I can relate! I am glad you licked the bowl all by yourself. We have our selfish moments, but as moms and wives, we give and give and give and give and sacrifice. Our kids have NO idea what we do for them, so I applaud you for your small selfish act of licking the bowl all by yourself. It’s the same as when I sneak to 7-11 and buy myself a taquito, just for me and no one else.
January 21, 2012 at 2:42 pm
Love this Janelle! And I love you!
January 21, 2012 at 4:16 pm
Thanks for the comments, guys. Wish I could sit down for a cup of coffee with each of you.
January 21, 2012 at 10:17 pm
And I ate french fries at the hockey game today, because I ended up sitting in the stands all by myself
Seems to me we have to find a way to do this that doesn’t involve so many fat grams!!!! Ideas, anyone?
January 23, 2012 at 5:40 am
Oh Anne, I know. The struggle!
January 22, 2012 at 8:12 pm
So can relate…! Kuddos to you to be selfish…just a little! Really enjoy reading your blog!
January 23, 2012 at 5:41 am
Thank you, Fiona!
February 2, 2012 at 1:29 pm
I hope you left just a bit of chocolate on your upper lip so that they could all “dream” of the yummy treat in which you had just indulged!! Yay for you!!
My “licking the bowl” is to just drop everything and go lie down, which usually leds me to a power nap. The world (usually) looks just a tad brighter for me. Happy lick’n, my dear sweet sister!